Thursday Tidbits

Hello all, hope everything is well. Life on this side of the earth is going as well as can be accepted, I am grateful for the little things. For example, yesterday I found free parking at three meter sites, folks waived me down to give me their paid for spot. In DC that is unheard of. That alone made me feel like I walked on a clowd of blessings.

I am pleased to inform you that i have hired a publicist, well, not officially, i haven't sent the check yet, but I am excited about working with her. She believes in Intimate Musing (for all my friends who purchased copies - thank you) and Cherished Beginnings and is excited about representing me. This sistah is so professional and talented, a self starter and multitakser, reminds me of another woman I met in Athlanta named Michellda. She was so fly, so focused and on point, her energy and spirit really redirectedme, inspired me, when I was healing from a separation. Actually, her influence gave me the strength to decide to move forward with my life. And Belinda, the publicist, has that same energy. So I will give her full name and contact info once I can clearly in good conscious name her as my publicist, ie, after the contracts are signed.

On another matter, I am facing a personal dilemma with blogging. OK fellow bloggers, you know how this works, you post to share your thoughts and experiences, your ideas and beliefs. I definitely enjoy feedback, it is the highlight of my day. That you took time to tap in, check up on me, and actually write back is so special. But I am facing the problem that some of the folks I am actually most intimately connected (family) are now reading. And I don't know how I feel about it. On some level it makes me not want to post, want to hold a little back, cause I am very private in person and don't want to have to answer for what I share with the public. And I don't want my experiences used to hurt or harm other family members, or rub stuff in their faces. So I thought about shutting Discover Kai down completely over the past 48 hours. Gave it a great amount of thought, actually. But I am going to stick to it. I enjoy it, I love the space I have created, my isolated black oasis of thought and reflection, and I don't want to lost that.